Women Rockers of Broward County - Part 1

This week, I am starting a three-part series showcasing three experienced band members who have agreed to answer a few questions from yours truly about what it's like to be in their shoes.  This week's featured artist is Jesse Kussack who, up until last weekend, was the lead singer of local band, Love Honey.  Here, then, is my unedited interview which took place this past week:

WC: What is your  full time job and what do you like to do when you’re not working or playing with the band?

JK: I work in Property Management in Boca. In my free time, I love to dine out, I love trying new food. I love to cook and bake especially for the band, the boys really appreciate it. I really enjoy reading sappy romance novels... I am a hopeless romantic what can I say? I enjoy being active. I hit the gym or go for bike rides often. Besides my bed, I love to read on the beach and listen to the waves. When I go, I usually go alone - It puts me in my happy place :) 

WC: If you could give up your daytime job and make enough money to survive by playing with your band more often in more places, would you do it?

JK: HELL YES! I work in the corporate world, do you know how many bosses that means??? Someone is always up your ass. Besides, I love being barefoot and if you have ever seen me perform that is typically how I like to be.

WC: Now that you are no longer with Love Honey, what are your future plans for a singing career?

JK: I will never NOT be with LH. I consider them family and I plan to continue being part of their journey. They were my first band and we had so much fun together. I have stepped down as lead vocals but I do plan to support them as well as make guest appearances on stage. I am not certain what my future with singing entails but I love to sing and I will never stop. I hope to get an acoustic project together one day. Ohhhhh yeah....I should tell you the main reason I decided to pursue singing about 1 1/2yrs ago was to be a studio singer. That would be soooo great! I used to work in radio and do voice overs so I am comfortable in studios, we'll see what happens.

WC: What advice would you give to other women who are interested in joining a band?

JK: My best advice would be DO IT! It's scarey at first but ya gotta go for it. If you wanna know what it's like to fly without getting on a plane, sing your heart out on a stage. It is the best rush! I was given some great advice when I first started with the band from one of my bandmates and good friends, Shawn Jones, 'Ya' gotta feel it'. Meaning, if you are gonna sing-give it all you've got, sing with your soul.

WC: Thank you Jesse and best of luck to you!

Find out where you can see and hear the all new Love Honey at www.weekendbroward.com

5 Days of Halloween

Every year, we adults get a chance to publicly disguise ourselves in outlandish attire without getting arrested because it's Halloween and "anything goes" on this holiday.  This year, October 31st falls on a Monday, the #1, worst day to schedule a live event because it follows a whole weekend filled with events that exhaust the true party goers.  Here are just a few suggested events where you can try out your new costume throughout the greater Fort Lauderdale area up to four days prior to letting the kids attack your place for candy on Monday night.

Thursday, October 27 - 4th Annual Halloween Bash at Tijuana Taxi in Coral Springs featuring one of Broward's best bands for any party, Riverdown.  The popular rock cover band will play on an outdoor stage setup especially for this event.  Starting at 8pm, you can celebrate Halloween early with a Margarita or Corona in one hand and Taco in the other while you dance to the classic and modern rock served up by Jimi, Stevan, Howie and CJ.  $1000 in prize money will be given away for best costumes at 11pm.  Tijuana Taxi is located at 901 University Dr. in Coral Springs, next to the mall. 

Friday, October 28 - 29 -  Head over to the Seminole Hard Rock Casino in Hollywood where the large number of clubs and restaurants are bound to bring together a chemistry of fun people.  Live music can be found nightly at Murphy's Law.  There's bound to be plenty of spill-over crowds from dance clubs Pangaea and Gryphon.  Pangaea will feature the 6th annual Penthouse Naughty Halloween Party.

Saturday, October 29 - The annual Halloween Street Party starts at 7pm with registration for the costume contest at Shooters Cafe & Bootleggers Bar next door to each other in Northernmost end of Fort Lauderdale Beach.  Contestants come from all over the state on this South-West corner of A1A and Oakland overlooking the intra-coastal vying for the $5000 grand prize for best costume.  The outdoor stage is surrounded by thousands of party-goers, all dressed in the best Halloween costumes and the most exciting entertainment is just watching the endless parade of beautiful adult costumes!  Just as the contest winners are announced, the band inside, Riverdown, revs up their engines to what has become a legendary annual party at these landmark restaurant bars at 3003/3033 NE 32nd Ave in Fort Lauderdale.

Saturday, October 29 - How about seeing a local 80's rock cover band in 3D?  Yes, you will need to wear your 3-D glasses when you visit Cagney's Saloon in Davie for a spectacular light show, courtesy of SOULICIDE .  Show starts ar 10:30pm.  Get there earlier to pick up your glasses!  Cagney's is located at 5983 S. University Dr. on the corner of Stirling in Davie.

Saturday, October 29 - Looking for a good old fashioned costume contest with a great Party Band?  Chit Chats is sponsoring a contest with $1000 in prize money, free jello shots, unknown surprises and one of the best party bands in the Fort Lauderdale area, known as SLEJJ.  Lead Vocalist Lindley Billy will get you on your feet and his supporting cast will astound you with their guitar, bass, drum and keyboard skills.    The party gets started at 9:00pm.   Chit Chats is located at 651 N. Federal Highway, just north of Atlantic Ave.

Sunday, October 30 - 12th Annual Hoodoo Voodoo Blues Ball at Satchmo Blues Bar (2861 E. Commercial Blvd) in Fort Lauderdale - Featuring the Nucklebusters, Rod Hamdallah, David Shelley and Bluestone. Starts at 7pm $10.00 entry. Find more details at www.hoodoovoodoo.com

Monday, October 31 - Hoodoo Voodoo Blues Ball (Day 2) at Satchmo Blues Bar )2861 E. Commercial Blvd) in Fort Lauderdale - Featuring  Iko-Iko and Special Guests Nicole Yardlin and Ron Taylor, Albert Castiglia Band. Starts at 7pm $10.00 entry. Find more details at www.hoodoovoodoo.com

As I mentioned at the beginning of this blog, I chose just a few events to feature here due to their uniqueness.  However, I invite you to check out the updated events calendar at www.weekendbroward.com and my personal wall on Facebook at www.facebook.com/weekendconcierge

The Greeting

Every weekend, I try to visit as many bars and restaurants as I can to promote local bands that play around town.  When the owners and managers are present, I can usually get a warm greeting and sometimes even a drink "on the house".  Since I do not get paid for what I have been doing this past year, a friendly greeting can go a long way to making me decide whether or not I want to return.

Last weekend, I encountered several incidences which make me think that some local establishments do not appreciate some free World Wide Web publicity.  One example was a well known corner bar in the Himarshee district of downtown Fort Lauderdale.  I'm not sure why, but security would not let me enter with my camera bag.  When I showed them that it really contained a camera and told them that I was a friend of the band, they insisted on shoving a flashlight into every small pocket of my camera bag before finally letting me in.  Ironically, my battery died and I couldn't even take one photo of the band I was there to see, Riverdown. Have they ever heard of the expression "You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar?"

I learned this week that there is an unwritten code of conduct when it comes to pricing sales of alcohol.  Based on past experience, you should be able to order a drink and assume it will cost the same as the last time you ordered it, right?  Now, I do understand that the price of everything has gone up lately but listen up... Venturing North to see another favorite band of mine, Pandia, I visited a place I will call "The Ugly Cup" where I paid $10 for two drinks upon arriving.  That was reasonable based on my past history of ordering similar drinks at similar establishments.  An hour later, the bartendar asked my friend to pay $10 each!  In disbelief, I went up to the bar and was quoted $8, even after I complained that I had just paid $5 an hour earlier.  Is that any way to treat a customer?  A few days later, I tried to call the owner twice to discuss that incident but his staff never knows when he's going to be in. Can you blame him for not wanting to be around to deal with angry customers?

I think that we have all experienced this in some way or another.  Some places have velvet ropes to make you wait outside while others have friendly bartenders that invite you inside.  It's amazing how many "regulars" you will find at the friendly places while the "ugly" places rely on the stragglers who can't find another place open at the later hours or worst, fans of the bands to bring in the bucks!

I'm reminded of one of my favorite restaurants for burrito's, Moes Southwest Grill.  When you step into any one of their many franchised restaurants, you will not only find an amusing atmosphere on the walls, but you will be greeted by the entire staff shouting "Welcome to Moes!".  Now, I agree that this would get annoying pretty quick if everyone entering a bar were greeted that way but it's important to make every schmuck (like me) feel like a someone - after all, we are paying customers, and you do want us to return over and over again, Don't you?

A Matter of Responsibility

Image via WikipediaDo you ever bite off more than you can chew?  You know what I mean - you take on a large project that consumes your whole life? Anyone that has high hopes and aspirations sometimes needs to take a deep breath and dive into the deep sea and expand their horizons.  Otherwise, how will you ever explore new depths in your life?  Unfortunately, once you're in the water, the sand sometimes gets stirred up and things look murkier than you thought.  Do you give up and swim back up to your old life or do you wait for the sand to settle and hope for clearer waters?

My initial thoughts this week were about the abundance of websites created by individuals who had good intentions once upon a time but seamingly gave up on them and left us a trail of old information behind.  More specifically, why do some businesses advertise that they have Karaoke on their website when they stopped offering it months ago?  I thought of three reasons for this: (1) Updating the information required paying a web designer because the original owner could not do it by his or herself. In this rough economy, who wants to pay someone to remove out-dated information that won't hurt anyone?  (2)  The website owner was only interested in selling advertising so he or she did not care if people stumble upon the infortmation that was outdated. (3) It's easier to put up a website than to take one down.  In all three cases, it's a matter of responsibility, right?!

Whether we're talking about starting a new website, a new band, a new business or a new relationship, we all share some responsibility to not give up so easily.  Perseverence is key.  Sometimes we succeed and sometimes we fail.  What is more important is that we know we gave it our best and did not give up without a fight.  The rewards of success can make all the pains worth it.  However, if you are going to give up on the project you started, try not to leave your garbage around for others to clean up.  It's all a matter of responsibility.

Have a great weekend!

Rob aka Weekend Concierge
http://www.weekendbroward.com/

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Finding the right elements

Every day, it seems like I am either talking to someone who is trying to form a successful band or someone who is trying to run a business and use live entertainment to attract more customers.  Either way, I try to break down success into a few simple elements to figure out what the band or business can do to attract more fans. 

When it comes to bands, the most successful ones have three elements to their advantage - they sound good, they put on a great performance and they have a fan base that is big enough so that they don't spread themselves too thin when they play often and keep trying to get the same friends to see them play at every gig.  Although I have never been in the bar business, I can tell you that as a paying customer, I prefer the ones that have a stage large enough to accomodate at least a 5 piece band comfortably, have reasonable food and drink prices and never demand a cover charge.

I recently put together a Top 10 list called The Best Bars for Bands in Broward and noticed that all the venues on the list, more or less, had the aformentioned attributes.  The other criteria for making the list was a consistant effort on the part of the venues to hire quality cover bands each and every weekend.  I have always believed in consistancy.  If you want people to come to your venue every weekend, you must make an effort to hire the right bands and let people know about it too!  Some places pay big bucks for a popular cover band and automically expect to fill their restaurants and bars with fans.  If the bar happens to be located on a busy street such as by the beach where passers by can hear the music and stop in to see the band - that's great.  On the other hand, if your place is located down a hidden avenue, you will have to work a little harder to get the word out.  Most bands I know do not have a marketing budget so creativity goes a long way.

Bars and bands have a symbiotic relationship when it comes to publicity.  Many bands rely on friends and family, mostly on Facebook.  Unfortunately, that usually includes college friends and family that are out of town who feel bad about not being able to come to Florida.  You will often see their well-meaning comments such as "Sorry, I can't make it - wish I could be down there but we're out of town".  Then there are the bars who rely so heavily on the fan base of the bands that they don't realize that fans get burned out if the band plays every weekend in the same geographic area.

Another important element for restaurants and bars who strive to make the "Top 10 List" is to ensure bands have a decent stage where they can be both heard and seen - after all, the band's show is just as important as their sound.

Now that I have covered what I feel to be the most important elements for successful bands and local venues who host them, why don't you ask yourself what are the right elements for you to make the most of your one and only life?  Does it include listening to great live music?  Does it include spending more time with friends?  If so, maybe you can help our local bands and bars fulfill their mission by inviting your friends to meet you at a local watering hole and enjoy some great live entertainment!

Best wishes for a great weekend!

Rob aka Weekend Concierge

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Phree Photo Policy

In my never ending quest to come up with a unique environment for disseminating information about affordable entertainment in and around Fort Lauderdale, I have found a need to explain my policy when it comes to giving away photos which you see me taking all over town.

First, I would like to share the photos with fans of this website which includes the bands, the fans of those bands and the venues which host them.  In return for the use of my photo's, I would like the watermark on the bottom right corner to remain in recognition of the source of the picture.  I have coined the expression "Phree Photo's" because I can't call them 100% FREE - since I am asking for recognition in return for their use. 

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Unlike photographs you find on other websites and print publications, I do not ALWAYS get permission to take the photos before aiming my camera in your direction.  This allows me the ability to take candid pictures which are not staged for me, but rather, show the natural fun people have when attending the musical events I capture in digital format.  This gives my website and Facebook page a sense of uniqueness which you will not always find elsewhere.  If, however, you happen to appear in a photo and find it more humiliating than exciting, I will be happy to remove the picture from public view.  I trt to delete photographs before publication if I feel that it does not show people in the best light - but mine is a subjective viewpoint. 

If you would like to appear in a photograph and you see me out and about taking pictures, I will be happy to not only take your picture, but also modify it in such a way that you can use it for your personal use.  I understand that these days, we are all being asked to upload our photo's on networking sites such as Facebook, Meetup.com, LinkedIn, and intra-company sites.  I take great pleasure in learning the art of photography and seeing a smile come to people's faces when they like a picture I took.

Lastly, if you would like to use one or more of my photo's for publication, digital or other media, in which you will profit from its' use, I will work out an arrangement to give you rights to use an un-marked, full-resolution version of the photo.  When that happens, I can change my title from amateur to professional photographer - a day I am looking forward to seeing sometime soon!

On behalf of WeekendBroward.com, I remain,

The Weekend Concierge

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Larger than Life

Every once in a while, you meet someone who can make you feel like you are the only one in the room.  Like a public speaker that speaks to a large audience yet somehow makes eye contact with you every time you look at them, you feel exhilarated when you come in contact with such a person.  They seem to have an unlimited amount of energy.  You wonder what gives them the ability to keep going at all hours of the night.  You feel like they have a million friends.  They are always running into people they know.  Is this someone you could be good friends with or is it someone whose expectations you could never live up to?

Quite often, Hollywood movie stars are portrayed as Mr. or Ms. Perfect.  They have the whitest teeth, the perfect smile, the sexiest bodies and know exactly what to say.   But at the end of the movie, you exit the theatre and know it was just a good act.  Every day, we see and hear commercials about how to live a healthier lifestyle - and if not, just have "cosmetic" surgery, right?  Then you run into someone in real life who is not an actor, always has a smile and never had to visit a surgeon to look as good as they do.   Could this person be the real thing?  Yes, there are people around you who just live for making others happy.  Then one day, they leave, and you feel like you have just lost something special in your life.  When that happens, don't be sad, "Pay it forward!"  To explain, I will quote motivational speaker, Blake Beattie; “Sail beyond the horizon; fly higher than you ever thought possible; magnify your existence by helping others; be kind to people and animals of all shapes and sizes; be true to what you value most; shine your light on the world; and be the person you were born to be.”

Now, that's a philosophy I can live with!  On behalf of WeekendBroward, have a great weekend!

Rob, aka Weekend Concierge